Somehow, we are devolving into a society that thinks we have to agree on all the issues in order to be friends. This idea keeps us divided and at odds with each other. We tend to demonize and hate the people on the “other side” of an issue, as if they aren’t humans. We have to stop this or we are going to destroy each other until no one is left.
In his book, How to Human, Carlos Whittaker, an acquaintance and influencer, says, “Don’t stand on issues, but walk with people.” Maybe we are taken aback by that at first, because we care so deeply about the things we believe so strongly. But if you think it through, issues won’t stand beside you when your world falls apart, or come to help you when your car breaks down, or cry at your funeral. People will, depending on how we respect them and walk with them.
While we may not agree on certain things, we must agree on the definition of what it means to be human. Our treatment of others defines the societies we live in. We can all think of places in the world where we wouldn’t prefer to live because of how they view humanity. Genocide, hatred, and danger mark those places. I pose to you that our fundamental faith in people as image bearers of the Creator defines and dictates how we treat others. If we believe that everyone is made in the image of God, we do certain things, and if we don’t, well then, it’s all up for debate.
I believe the fact that you are reading this is a strong indicator that you are a compassionate person. People that are paying attention to hunger, increasing access to resources, and helping people out of poverty are often highly attuned to the concerns and issues affecting marginalized neighbors.
I would like to encourage you to pay close attention these days to those around you and also those on the margins. Life is hard and getting harder. Thousands and thousands right here in our community are holding their breath with concern that they will not have their SNAP benefits in a few days. This resource is a lifeline for them, and if we don’t understand that, we might need to get closer so that we do.
Pay attention to what is going on in our vulnerable populations and ask yourself: what does being human mean these days? Does it mean you need to reach out to some people you know to check on them? Do you need to do some research about issues that are affecting our neighbors—the effects of budget cuts, our housing crisis, and separation of families by immigration raids? Do you need to speak up for those who can’t speak for themselves? Do you need to volunteer, collect food, donate? Whatever you choose to do, we must be human if we are to survive these challenging times. You don’t have to agree with your neighbor in order to love them. You just have to see them as human.
Melissa Thomas
Executive Director/CEO